Freaking out about cavities

So, I have been working pretty hard to keep the girls from getting cavities, right. Well, Aaron mentions to me the other night that they have cavities, and I saw them as well. NOT COOL! I was so upset and discouraged. I don't think I would be near this upset if we had had dental insurance. We are going to be paying on this years dental work for another eight months, and now add to that. I don't think we will ever get caught up. I am just so overwhelmed.

And now, that they put us on a fluoride regimen with ACT rinse for the girls every night, we are still having issues. Well, we have been doing this now since spring, before Belles two front teeth came in. And guess what?! Her teeth came in all bumpy. Like her teeth had a bad case of acne that left pock marks. What the Heck! How did that happen. I am barely able to breath I am so upset! These are her permanent teeth. HELLO! Am I the worst mother in the whole world? I don't even know what it is I did wrong to ruin my babies permanent front teeth. I am going to get an ulcer over this one.